How Your Time Online Can Benefit Many: Why Pay It Forward Really Works

December 10, 2008 · 20 comments

Few realize how far one little action on their part can ripple. Maybe if they knew they’d toss more little pebbles into the great sea that is our online world or launch more butterflies. Each time you share something online – especially if that something benefits someone else – you improve the world.

Your tiny efforts could make the difference for some between struggling and thriving.

Here is just one example and stats on the enormous numbers of people who could potentially be affected:

Thomas sent me a nice little note at Twitter which led to all of this activity:

  • Viewed his TferThomas Twitter profile and then visit his Thoughts and Twitters by Thomas blog.
  • I liked his quote of the day so I shared it and the link to his Twitter so others could follow him if they also liked it.
  • I read his post about Paying it Forward
  • I like that idea and what he had to say about it so I shared it at FriendFeed.
  • Within a couple of hours Rob Michael indicated he liked what I shared which then shared it in his atmostrio FriendFeed feed.

Thomas had no idea that his friendly message would start all this. Rob didn’t know that his own music blog would gain more visibility online because he took a micro-second to add a like to what I shared. No one knows who else will see one of these links in the Web that all started with one hello.

What else could happen? Do you know how many other Social Networking sites there are? Hundreds! Most people use at least several. I’ve seen my FriendFeed links spread to all of these:

  1. Google Reader
  2. StumbleUpon
  3. Facebook
  4. MySpace
  5. Other blogs
  6. ReadBurner
  7. Blog Catalog
  8. Toluu
  9. RSSmeme
  10. Backtype
  11. There are bound to be more I didn’t happen to see or have forgotten

The posts went circling around the socialsphere ending up back at Twitter and FriendFeed and circling back out again through those Social Networking services and more.

If you think it is because I had accounts on all of those you would be incorrect. I never heard of several of them before what I did somewhere ended up over there too.

Even if YOU only use one Social Networking site what you do can have far-reaching implications.

All it takes is for ONE person who sees what you do to share it with others. What if that one person is Guy Kawasaki? Or Robert Scoble? Or Louis Gray? Or Mike Fruchter? They each have thousands of people who read what they share. You don’t have to know any of them; you only have to know someone they read. It pays to be friendly with everyone because you can never know whose ear THEY may have.

Have you ever noticed that everyone jumps on anything the famous post? Let’s take Darren Rowse’s TwiTips post Construct a Top Ten Must Follow Twitter List for example. It has garnered 161 comments to date.

It may be wise to consider how much reach the less famous bloggers may have before passing up any opportunities they offer such as our own Top Ten FriendFeed Friends Challenge. Some may be serious and know what they’re doing.

Consider these numbers for FriendFeed Challenge participants from TwinFluence and compare them with your own (just type in any Twitter user’s name to see these, yours and anyone else’s numbers):

  • GrowMap – GrowMap’s Rank: #1,535 (87%) Reach: 642,569
  • Derek Semmler – dereksemmler’s Rank: #993 (92%) Reach: 882,181
  • Tamar – tamar’s Rank: #79 (99%) Reach: 3,046,872
  • Louis Gray – louisgray’s Rank: #79 (99%) Reach: 2,941,752
  • Mike Fruchter – fruchter’s Rank: #2,423 (80%) Reach: 453,035
  • LadyBug Heather aka hedwyg - #3,972 (67%) Reach: 281,009
  • Joe Dawson – joedawson’s Rank: #1,990 (83%) Reach: 527,105

Note that GrowMap only opened a Twitter account about November 20, 2008 – twenty days ago – and already has more reach than 87% of all Twitter accounts. No technology was used; we simply recognize who knows what they’re talking about and applied our awareness of how computer systems and Social Networking work instead.

It is no coincidence that these specific bloggers entered the challenge even though they are already very influential in their own right.

How do you think they BECAME influential and well known?

If you would like to grow your blog or business, emulate the actions of those who are already successful at doing so – follow their lead!

Even if YOU do not have the amount of online time some of us do you CAN benefit from OUR time by participating in what we’re doing full time.

A good place to start would be to follow all of the above at FriendFeed, Twitter and elsewhere. Read their blogs at FriendFeed or your favorite RSS reader. We’ve sped up that process by providing all their links below:

TIP: Hold down the control key to open each link in a new tab to quickly act on all these links.

Before you go, do you know how long it takes to add all those links to a blog post? Do you know WHY I spent the time to offer you all those links? Because I want YOU to be more successful and the time I invested can now save all those who read this their valuable time.

YOU could be among this select group by simply entering our FriendFeed Challenge!

I know you’re busy but consider the seed you’re planting today and what it can reap for you later. If you can’t add them now, do come back and add them later.

And remember to enter our FriendFeed Challenge so others can find you. How can we blog about what you’re up to and share your posts at FriendFeed and Twitter if you never introduce yourself?

P.S. Did you notice the numbered links to the Social Networking sites above? They are each to an article that helps you get started with that Social Media site.

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{ 16 comments… read them below or add one }

John Deen September 30, 2011 at 9:51 am

amazing how much good information you find searching the web. just got linked here from comluv who also had some good info. had to bookmark botth so I can keep up with the information

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InternetStrategist who writes about GrowMap
Twitter:
April 9, 2009 at 10:10 pm

Twitter: @GrowMap

@maria Glad you like it. I hope you’ve tried it for yourself. Remember that I am always happy to assist anyone who could use additional tips or traffic. Just contact me at Twitter or leave a comment here.

@Ladybug Heather Welcome. I’m glad you finally found me. There are so many places to visit that it is amazing we find the ones we do! I’ll be by to visit your blog too.

InternetStrategist’s last blog post..Blog Traffic Up 54.87% in the Last 30 Days: Our Proven Traffic Improvement Strategy

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Ladybug Heather
Twitter:
April 8, 2009 at 9:55 pm

Twitter: @hedwyg

Holy cow — how did I not see this until now! *blush* I am so flattered to be included in this illustrious list of bloggers and social media folks.

I work in IT as a telecommuter, so social networking is my virtual “water cooler chat,” where it’s neat to be silly, to talk about last night’s TV shows, or just share weird in-jokes. In my free time, I blog, mostly about my spiritual journey. I’m not a high-volume blogger, and I don’t blog for fame or money… which, of course, are both highly gratifying. :-)

Truly, thank you for including me here! I’m going to have to keep visiting, and checking out your recommendations.

Peace,
Ladybug Heather

Ladybug Heather’s last blog post..Lord, wash all of me! (Maundy Thursday)

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maria December 21, 2008 at 12:16 pm

Pretty powerful stuff!

Maria

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Tamar Weinberg December 13, 2008 at 5:28 pm

I’ll be back, Louis.

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Internet Strategist
Twitter:
December 12, 2008 at 9:30 pm

Twitter: @GrowMap

The seeds we’ve all planted in the last TWO DAYS are responsible for these gains in Twitter:

UPDATE on TWINFLUENCE Two Days Later – effect of this post and other activities:

GrowMap #1,225 (90%) 789,494 up from Rank: #1,535 (87%) Reach: 642,569

Derek Semmler #952 (92%) 926,375 Up from Rank: #993 (92%) Reach: 882,181

Tamar #82 (99%) 3,180,449 down slightly Rank: #79 (99%) Reach: 3,046,872

Louis Gray Rank: #73 (99%) 3,285,319 Up from #79 (99%) Reach: 2,941,752 (You passed Tamar!)

Mike Fruchter Rank: #2,112 (83%) 510,801 Up from Rank: #2,423 (80%) Reach: 453,035

LadyBug Heather aka hedwyg – hedwyg’s Rank: #3,914 (68%) 292,980 Up from #3,972 (67%) Reach: 281,009

Joe Dawson Rank: #1,972 (84%) 543,547 Up from Rank: #1,990 (83%) Reach: 527,105

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growmap
Twitter:
December 11, 2008 at 1:07 pm

Twitter: @GrowMap

@Louis We can all use a funny story to break up the serious. That’s why I selected that one. :-)

I have so much more content I can add it would overwhelm some – but not you. I’m always torn between writing on:
1) Usability for online stores and blogs
2) WordPress and how much more awesome this and other blogs can be (I know what is needed but am not geek-enough to do it myself which is why turn-key fully optimized WP is needed so businesses and writers can focus on what they already know.)
3) Showing small businesses how to grow and prosper
4) Enhancing public awareness of how their actions can change the world.

I’m always open to requests, so if you or anyone else wants to read about something in particular they have only to ask.

@Rob Just keep reading quality blogs like the ones I link in and you’ll have plenty of great ideas. It is like learning to read; first you have to get the basics and before you know it you’ll know so much you’ll need a book to explain it all.

@Mike What you’ve done to help new FriendFeed users get up to speed makes it far easier for others like me to spread the word. You actually started what became the FriendFeed Challenge. I simply recognized a great idea and am working to get others to add their input to the lists YOU started. Thank you for including the FriendFeed Challenge in your weekly recap.

@Joe What a perfect example of how our actions can be used to spread the best content far and wide. You are a role model for those who don’t yet see that the way to become someone others “actively follow and learn from daily” is to first follow and then, as you are, take action. Based on the numbers in the post and your entry in the FF challenge you are already an up-and-coming leader.

When I want to get up to speed on FF and breaking Social Networking offerings, Louis and Mike are the first bloggers I read so if you read this and haven’t already, do scroll up and subscribe and follow them.

Thank you all for adding value to this post, for reading this blog, and for helping others find it. Together we CAN create a better world.

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Mike Fruchter December 11, 2008 at 8:28 am

Thanks for the mention. I applaud, and appreciate your positive efforts. You are doing some really great things for FriendFeed, and the larger community abroad. Keep up the great work!

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Joe Dawson December 11, 2008 at 4:58 am

On topic with your post I came across this via Louis Gray’s Google Reader shared items. I feel priviliged to be mentioned in the same list as people that I actively follow and learn from daily. Like Thomas you have made my day as well :)

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Rob Lee December 11, 2008 at 3:16 am

Nice Post!But i have no idea.Thank you for your kind words but you have a good content i really happy to read your post.So keep posting and keep on posting.

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Louis Gray December 11, 2008 at 1:27 am

The Scoble Web presence story was funny. Jesse Stay, who also blogs on louisgray.com, simply added up all the services where he found Scoble or I had logins, and I came out on top. We both know that’s a silly measure.

And… so long as you keep up good content, I’ll be reading.

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growmap
Twitter:
December 10, 2008 at 11:59 pm

Twitter: @GrowMap

Welcome, Tfer. You’re the guest of honor because you inspired this post. Akismet captured your comment and I rescued it. I see it actually came in first. Keep up the great work!

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Derek
Twitter:
December 10, 2008 at 9:24 pm

Twitter: @dereksemmler

This is a great look at how doing something that might seem so small at the time can have that ripple effect and touch many people.

Thanks for putting together this compilation of sites and links for all of us to explore.

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growmap
Twitter:
December 10, 2008 at 9:05 pm

Twitter: @GrowMap

Welcome back, Louis. I’m glad it isn’t to correct something this time. :-) I am honored that you read my posts.

Actually, I’ve been pondering how your rank is tied while the reach isn’t; obviously I don’t know what is behind their algorithms.

I suspect, though, that you’ll be catching up with all the extra publicity you’ve been getting lately. Did you notice the link above that says you top Scoble in Web presence?

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Louis Gray December 10, 2008 at 7:45 pm

Dang. Tamar beat me again. She’s invincible!

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TferThomas December 10, 2008 at 7:41 pm

Wow, I honestly had no idea, call me a newbie! Thank you so much for your kind words, but more importantly, paying it forward my simple blog on… yep, paying it forward. GHope it helps someone.

You have made my day!

Thomas

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